Learning to Love You...

"We are confined only by the walls that we build ourselves..."-Unknown

We all want success for ourselves, yet we are afraid of failure. "Failure does not mean that we have failed, but it indicates an opportunity to redo our past...to better our future..."

When we look in the mirror often we are not pleased with what we see, whether it be our forehead is too big, our eyes are too large and the list goes on. Then we remember that celebrities always fix their imperfections under the needles and we consider doing it too. There is nothing wrong with wanting to enhance your beauty to feel more confident about you, but not everyone can afford it.

The life we live as both women and young girls rotates about taking on what people say to us. Accepting that we are inferior to someone else just because they make us feel that they are superior. Not everything people tell you is true...you need to know your worth...and love you. We all need to stop acknowledge other peoples' beauty and start to honour our own. We all need to look in the mirror, start to appreciate who we are today and embrace who we will be tomorrow.

'When someone pass we chatter to our friend 'That girl is nice...' but as my close friend always tell me you can't say someone is nice by the outward appearance. Beauty start on the inside and tends outward. Today I urge you to stop compare yourself with others we are all fearfully and wonderfully made. It may be...it is impossible for you to feel confident when someone is shaking down your confidence, but don't make that person get the better of you. Look in the mirror and say "I am me...I love me...I am beautiful" do that everyday. Find and do things that makes you feel good about yourself. 

I turn to clothes, makeup and talking to people that make me feel good about myself, not that there are the times I am not confident. I just land back on my feet and do what makes me feel good. You don't learn to love yourself in one day, its a continued process, but today is a start. Challage yourself,  to the "MIRROR CHALLANGE" each time you pass by a mirror compliment yourself. Say things like "Hmmm you are beautiful girl..." or "I am so F-I-N-E." A confidence boost is good for everyone so try it today. 

You will have a different way form each and every person to feel beautiful, just go at it. Be you...Be bold...Be beautiful....

To be continued...

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Yours Truly

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